Life Choices

The beginning of one’s life is similar to anyone else's. Daily requirements for living are provided by others. Yet the conclusion of life finds each person in a far different place. Through life, choices are made which create these differences. Influences from caregivers and early associates present the foundation for thought and life choices.

As one grows, awareness expands beyond one’s self and clan. For some this is frightening, while others find this intriguing. Very young people tend to choose what gives quick or easy satisfaction. As one matures and accepts goals, instant gratification tends to be delayed until the achievement of greater goals. If one continues along a comfortable path too long, a rut develops. This can act like blinders which prevent people from seeing new choices. It is important to be aware and take responsibility for choices that are missed as well as the choices that are made.

Sometimes choices are made by following the actions of others or joining a group. With a sense of rebellion, a teenager may seek company of individuals different from the family. When exchanging home taught values for what the group offers, often the consequences are not immediately apparent. Rarely does one ask what the consequences of these choices will be. Robert Frost pondered which road to take, not knowing where either would lead. When at a fork in the road, each choice may feel similar. Knowing where you want to go provides guidance for the first step.

Each person has a dream of the future. Robert Allen used the phrase “As a man thinketh, so he shall be.” Holding the image of who you want to become provides a means for effective choices.